what i feel about things

When i was about 11 year old, i went a trip with my relative, we use a car Datsun,there was an open window at the front, the wind is blowing from that window, my aunt told me to sit at the middle , to avoid catch cold.
Then i saw a young maid, who was about the same age as i was sat in the front, she was wearing a thin blouse, but i was wearing a sweater, she had blue lips because of cold. I got up and change my place with her. My aunt couldn't say a thing in front of other people but scolded me in private, she thought i was foolish.
but i saw the girl about 15 yr later, she remembered the small incidence when every one else had forgotten.
when i feel something is not fair, i want to change, but may be this is not possible in every case. i learn that now.
sometimes i am too stubborn. but
There is a well known saying
ALL MEN ARE EQUAL, BUT SOME MEN ARE MORE EQUAL THAN THE OTHER.